Tuesday, May 25, 2010

Lesson: Letting Go

I finally just let go. Mostly out of frustration. I wasn't sure what would happen, but it turned out Lex could do this without me holding on. It was kind of lesson for me, too. Sometimes I just have to let go and let him do it on his own.

This particular lesson was learned teaching Lex how to ride his bike. Ever since last spring, I had been holding onto the back of Lex's bike trying to teach him to balance. I'd run out of steam and get frustrated. This Saturday, I decided I was too tired and gave him a good, hard push. I didn't know what would happen and I was afraid he was going to get hurt. And what would you know? He took off just like that! It was like something clicked and he became a beginning bike rider. I am so proud of him and he's very proud of himself.

Life can be funny that way. We hold on and hold on. Afraid of what will happen if we let go. And most of the time after we let go, all turns out to be just fine... sometimes even better than fine. Now if we can just teach him how to swim this summer!!

READY


SET

GO
p.s. sorry for the lack of helmet. its on the "must buy this weekend" list!

BATTLE WOUNDS

4 comments:

CodyandTraci said...

Tell Lex we are so happy for him, what a big accomplishment!!!

Heather said...

He looks so big on that bike!! I am the same way but they always end up surprising us:)

Jody said...

Good job Lex! Marianne, your blog looks great!

Robert Frome said...

Shane and Marianne,
Guys, I've lost your email address, can you send it to me at rfrome1066@gmail.com?

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Shane and I met my senior year of high school in 1996 and were married in 2000. It's just crazy to think we've known each other for more than a decade and still learn new things about each other. We both graduated from the University of Utah. I have a degree in Finance and Shane has a degree in Biology. We are both enjoying jobs in our respective fields. Our favorite thing to do is travel. Before we started a family, we spent two weeks in Europe touring Italy, Germany, Switzerland, and France. We want to see the world and hopefully take our children along with us when they are older. Our children are our life. Alexander "Lex" is our little man at 7 years old. He loves to try lots of new things. He's currently enrolled in soccer, tumbling & boys' hip hop. Isabel (or Bel as Shane likes to call her) is 3 1/2 years old. She is also enrolled in tumbling & dance. All in all, life is wonderful and we couldn't be happier.